feat: fix handling of gitlab repos

[sarahetter]

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Summary

Fixes #3771

Also not described in the issue was that we weren't displaying the correct webhook for gitlab users to add manually since we were passing through manual instead of gitlab - now it actually shows Configure the following webhook for your repository: https://api.netlify.com/hooks/gitlab as it should (and was in the code, just wasn't being exercised).

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• Dependency count: 1,073 (no change)
• Package size: 325 MB (no change)
• Number of ts-expect-error directives: 364 (no change)

[jaredm563]

[small bug] I think this is dead code- we'll be prompting users for an SSH that never gets send via network request ie repoData.repo ("owner/name")

Should we do something like so only the manual case will prompt the user

const repoPath = repoData.repo ?? (await getRepoPath({ repoData }))
repo_path: repoPath,